Who is the real man? That man who do not cry at all additionally does not shed tears like ladies. The man who want to take the leadership, the one who represents dominating personality and are concerned about the culture oath. The man who wants to drive his wife, kids and the lifestyle they are relishing. This is our absolute glossary for the actual man. Do we judge one's manliness on the base of these elements? The answer lies within us, the formation of society perspicacity and how we earmarked the rarity.

We all are the equal part of civilization; we are the one who builds one's life hell by utterly embedding the closed-ended swaggers. We should relish the man who believes in the gender equality; appreciate widespread perspicacity and the concrete path towards responsibilities. Sadly our boundary for the real man is considerably diversified. We affirmed those men who are wholly unenlightened in terms of identity, hold bigoted approach and considers that they can empower everything.

Lately, I came across with the interview of our senior star Badar Khalil she quipped' My husband Shahzad Khalil used to select sarees, clothes and jewelry for me. Being a hippie wife I never sweated on my appearances. My husband always pampered me and I still admire his habit'. In this era, we designated this section of men as joru ka ghulam, he is gay, and she must be paying his bills or man with zero self-respect.

What if a person can't play cricket but can shop for his wife? What if your brother is a fashion designer and can update you on the prevailing trends? What if a wife is a front driver? What if your son cooks for his wifey? What if your guy friend possesses a large figure of female friends?  What if your buddy can't drive? How can you conclude masculinity through his clothes? These questions are tomfoolery; we should encourage them for their fearlessness and contemporaneous reflection.

Here the question appears, who the hell are we to decide one's identity? We need to support them; it's easy to be a sportsman rather than a fashion designer. Being a fashion designer you have to face gossip mongers, massive criticism, religious fatwa’s and require demonstrating you can be a father (IYKWIM). It's us who is forming these illiberal receptacles under the name of the modern milestone. Why don't we address those offenders who deluded their wives, disappoint their daughters and also painting the chauvinism fever? The real man is the one who apprehends his faithfulness, loyalty and modesty en route to his intimate relations.