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At this very moment, I need to decide whether to start a new battle or step down with an uncertainty. I require comprehending how long I can stand in this garden wrapping my smirk on the shoulders. Let's start with a new bird - like they never fly in the welkin. The galaxies are dwelling in the midst of moonlight so is my ideal destiny. It's too early to declare a booming sunrise as we're not clear about the utter glee.

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We're just acting like gamblers the more you put the harder you get. I need a miracle badly - I'm too tired, lost, exhausted, and wounded.I'm not ashamed, we all want shelters in the end. The soul is lost so am I. You've to stay with me until the end maybe such as infinity 🔥

While puffing some smokes, I figured it out why it's happening? Maybe my life is a deserted place & with a knock of much-needed dew, it's acting really weird. Why am I scared? Am I weak? The answer is undoubtedly a big NO. It's just bad luck is haunting me like a psycho ex. Let them chase your happiness - at times it's an absolute pleasure to flaunt your bliss like a giant glazing diamond.

The baggage is the key catalyst in our lives. It makes us the rare vibe which is difficult to predict. Why curse something that can bring the awaited calmness.

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The title is inspired by Saba Imtiaz's novel, while I was stuck in traffic. However, my deepest sympathies go out to her for the debacle India has done with her masterpiece. Coming back to the topic, I heart my city born-and-bred Karachiite. I'm infused with memories of extravagant Clifton nightlife, sea view tales, Quaid-e-Azam tomb, Mohata's rich history, burns road food street mania and many such places. I realized the love for Karachi when I was 9, needless to say back then I never realized the positive influence it had on my subconscious mind.

Walk down busy lighthouse vauseway and you'll be happily overshadowed by shopkeepers selling diverse commodities at Lunda Bazaar. You'll find restaurants serving regional dishes such as Haleem, Kashmiri chai, Gujrati chat, Bun kababs, Hyderabadi biryani, you name it- they have it. The whole vibe of my city is exceptional, a compact blend of modern and traditional.

Now Karachi has lost its glory, the roads are almost blocked or in a never ending under constructions. I'm, amazed why Karachi is so obsessed with the horns. People trust me your HORNY horns are making us nauseous. Karachi citizens are authentic hipsters, who have a bucket reserved for #IDGAFs but believe me giving a fuck should not be your purpose. There are specific rules about driving. Which I am sure these cool hipsters are unaware of and never even try to know them. These cool motorists are driving vehicles with simplistic logic - bang traffic, bang law, and bang people.

I understand driving in Karachi is a rollercoaster ride. On a daily basis, you encounter with protests and rallies instead of hot dates.We need to observe the impact of our mistakes that can affect others. Maybe you're blocking an ambulance that is carrying a heart patient, or a young teenager getting late for paper and most importantly the corporate slaves like me can be scolded for nothing. So - Dear Karachittes, calm your tits!

Everyone seems fixated with the modernization bubble. In reviewing this enigma, learning the real diversity is essential. Pakistan's confrontation with the Westward over the past three eras underscores the distinction underlies in two manners - Modernization and Westernization -- both terms are frequently considered to be synonymous. In fact, modernization does not support Westernization, though modernization entails a transformation in faith about the process the world operates. Whereas, Westernization involves diversity in cosmological notions about the way that one should lead the life.

From quick updates on our social platforms, Smartphone, boozing, dance parties on weekends, wild sex life or gym-ing with females. Are we stuck in the great dilemma - imitating the west? Or our lifestyles are progressing by modern advancement. The struggle is real; somehow the change is invading our mental peace it seems we all are in a rat race which is morally wretched. The contradiction of religious, modernization, and affection for the West is affecting our roots and Gen X severely. Our life is encompassed on the prevailing fashion trends, extremely filtered selfies, ideal social accounts and fancy outings. Where are we heading?

The significant influence on the modernization is a shift in technology, and we're getting fastened to it. In reality, modernity comes from the acceptance of progression. Progress in society brings change in our mindsets, stable socio-economic class, mutual respect, and acceptance of equality. It anticipates treating your maids with utter admiration, avoiding teasing a girl at the bus stop, neither judging others while exercising, not looking down upon a friend who is working part-time. It entails a drastic shift in our decision process which is based on casteism, social statuses, gender inequality, and society norms.

If are we aping the west, why don’t strive for the Independency concerning financial support? If you can decide about your future then why we order our parents to pay for it? A lot has been written and said about feminists. Mostly, for the people who support them without acknowledging the real enigma. Feminism, women empowerment, and gender equality are essential to understanding for the effective implementation.

Becoming modern requires an evolving method - in customs, learning, and implementation. It involves prudent and deliberate struggles to get to the radix cause of development. Modernity will come when we as a society would ignite questioning "Why" and "How". The evolution process has commenced, but there is still time before I can say that the youth today is becoming "modern".

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Our moms are the coolest monsters on this planet. The guesses are always on point for instance; what we want, why are we upset? Or most predominantly if he had a breakup. However, the things they say which we don’t agree most of the time they sound insanely bizarre and ridiculous.

But somehow we know that our moms have the perfect intentions in mind. I've listed down the most popular one-liners by our mothers. Every age bracket can relate with these easily.

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Kyun? Kyunke meine kaha, isliye.

Mein 3 tak gin rahi hun.

Jao khelo, lekin agar roye tou acha nahi hoga

Pata nahi’ ka kya matlab?

Majal ho jo meine apni maa se aise baat ki ho

Sab kooain mein chalang lagayenge tou tum bhi lagado?

Shakal aisai reh jayegi aik din

Tumse zyada takleef mujhko hoti hai

Pair dabanay ko bolo tou foran maut anay lagti hai

Tumhari umar mein humein tassavur bhi nahi tha thaknay ka

Kitni dair mein arahay/arahi ho?Jaldi aana.

Mat kaho mujhe Ammi, Mar gayien tumhari Maa

Zabaan chalati hai?

tum chali jaogi tau mera kia hoga

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Some truths are universal! my husband is gay, the unpleasant revelation that sometimes come in many women's’ life smashing their goals of love, children and the ecstasy of a pure martial bond. These facts are not taboo in Pakistan anymore as we are living with them and these topics are rising every day. The housewives are quieted in obscure along with their voices, aspirations, goals and glee celebrating their marital lives in an isolation.

I'm the least bothered individual when it comes to people's sexuality. I am not here to bash gays or judge them, people's sexuality are their own affairs, whatever the ethical standing is, does not affect me.Gay men are a powerful reality in our society; whether in closed windows, behind closets or out of it, they are a part of our society. It's certainly worthless to mark sexuality as a medical dilemma if it can be treated or being gay is fine or not. The significant issue I want to raise here is the utter pressure from the society, family and friends that become a cultural crime when one's sexual orientation harms and wrecks youthful lives of the girls they marry or are bound to marry.

Being gay is not a psychological, environmental or mysterious intricacy. It can't be treated through acknowledgements, therapies or home remedies. If any gay man ever summons the courage to tell their parents about his sexual orientation; parents not only deny the revelation they also cut all the ties. How many times the parents of gay men accept the reality with open-heartedly sadly not a single one!! It is essentially the progenitors who need to recognize the fact, not push their sons to get wedded to girls. Instead of refuting the existence, taking him to medicate considering it's a sickness or to consider a bengali baba as your boy is possessed by an evil spirit or to moulvi’s for jhar phoonk, or beating him, usually emotional blackmailing that they will not be able to show their faces to society, family or relatives if their son refuses a proposal and not marry.

I've talked with gay boys, married gay men and discussed their convalescence and grief. Most of them state that they are attacked, and pressurized and pushed by their families to consider a marriage. As we don’t have the courage to face our parents, the whole truth is that being a disgrace to the family if you are born gay. One queer shared his qualms;

'I want to be me! The flying bird but I'm bounded by blood bonds, society norms and pathetic mindsets.'

Most of the parents are steadily in a state of rejection and keep convincing the gay men for marriages. They don't even make an attempt to grasp why their boy is opposing a marriage proposal. If your boy is frequently refusing marriage proposals and not ready to settle down despite every attempt, don’t push him for whatever purpose it is. If you inspected gay inclinations, you have no liberty to push him to marry a naive girl just to maintain your cute little boy is straight. My question for gay parents is that how can you willingly play with a girls world, why to take a chance, assuming that if he is wedded to a girl, have babies and under a bogus straight marital relationship?Why make the girl an African hog? Ironically she is not a research laboratory for your sons’ sexuality.

These days marrying a girl, raising a family and restating their gay lives appears so common with some men and their parents who absolutely refuse to detect any wrongdoing in it. The alternatives left for females is either divorce or carry a shady life under one roof with their gay husbands. Instead of happy ever and after like flick, they live forever with blasphemy like what is my offense or why am I cursed?

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Like songbirds, we humans do plead for shelter. I believe at my age that I am just too late for this acceptance. I used to imagine I know so much about this orb. Now, I'm doubting my own whims of love, admiration and romance. In all this route I've been hallucinating about the honest relationship, now I'm questioning if I should be fantasizing about lying on the perfect relationship. So, am I recommending infidelity? Indubitably not how can I defend something that's already mobbed our lives?

Nearly everybody is cheating on everyone. I'm not seeing it be a dilemma between people anymore either. I've chatted to partners of both sexes, and everybody looks ok with it, and they're growing their relationships entirely content with all good in the cowl (Ironically it's not a genteelism). Surely, there are bursts that are shed, there are meltdowns and wrecks. It's not a luscious blueberry cheesecake platter. Umm, but sometimes sugar daddies and charming angels can be real helpful for the both genitals.

I've seen husbands; they talk about other ladies or boys. And I also meet the females; they do discuss other boys and girls. It depends on the sexual taste, as bounded by society norms yet confined with physical desires. I perceive sexuality and fidelity channels are shading, we can't pick if that's healthy or harmful. I believe certain revelations are universal: Let's consider, if you're on a diet, everything that's not permitted looks more gratifying. So in a relationship scenario, does the above interpretation looks valid? Or are we using infidelity for the relationship detoxification?

I believe it's all matured universally, and it's not new. Infidelity has invariably breathed, but it was whisked under the sunshade, behind the disturbances, behind the bright walls and padlocked doors. Now everyone is relishing this taboo, they've quit faking they're not. Businesspeople go on the 'work trips', wives appreciate 'indoor' sports and young brigade digs 'outdoors' adventures. All stereotypes are crushed; girls are not more trustworthy than the lads. I've been at gatherings where everyone has a wandering eye and a shaking leg. Admittedly it appears why should men have all the pleasure? If they're getting some, why shouldn't females try the equivalent course? And for that, I applaud both sexes. They have their cheat days same as anybody. Why stick to À la carte, when you can enjoy the whole buffet. The question awakes how long can we relish this wrong practice.

A long-distance relationship can make you believe that substantial meet up is more relevant than anything. The idea of each other in a relationship is so delightful which can't be utter in words, those sentiments are rare.

You do relish your significant one enthusiastically, even for the particular details such as hairstyle, a new attire or new fragrance. All these things are extraordinary for the couple who is exhaling in the long relationship. Appreciating basic details is the way to grow your love. The real cupid in long distance relationship is a distance which commences the trust issues. It is the most common situation where problems occur and you can’t communicate.

You believe that answering your significant one’s questions and assumptions will make you fight, so you will not communicate with them for a while. At the same time, you do feel scared and worry about the situation. It can be a prominent enigma if you haven’t got the appropriate solutions and keep dragging the issues.

Fathers eternally titled as one man army. He is the one who raised his kids. He is a true strength behind great upbringing. It's truly obvious for fathers it’s very arduous to live up to the anticipations and full fill the obligations. Father is the one personality who is accountable for his toddler eternity. Either he can make it or ruin it by his reckless approach. In our religion, we can observe the visible power of fathers in our lives.Ali ibn al-Husain (r) is reported to have said,

“The right of your father on you is that you should know that it is he who brought you into existence, and you are a branch of the tree of his life.”

Our society and religion somehow are very biased towards the father. The question occurs what makes a genuine father? What does a good father act? A father is someone who understands that by granting his sperm for your origin, he has accomplished his ultimate commitment in life. A dad is somebody who gets up every day and performs whatever he can to put a shelter over your head, clothes on your body and meal on your board. Possibly he might have to dig real hard for bread and butter. He performed various jobs such as selling burgers, food delivery or a job in a warehouse. He may be not own fancy clothes, suits, and shoes. He illustrates the importance of hard work not as he’s expecting for relief but because he grasps unemployment commences to dispute. He recognizes his responsibility is to secure his kids and render productive lives. As he can’t always be with them.

Those who do not accomplish their commitments should not be cited as father or dad. Why it's troublesome for them to assume the basic consequence of their role and trustworthiness. You should be adequate to feed them with basic constraints, do teach them what is appropriate or evil. There is a thin line beyond duties, If you are not capable enough, why are you demanding all the warmth and admiration from your kid. Why are we confined by society rules and religion penalties? It is very comfortable to state patience is a virtue, belief in karma and tawakkul in ALLAH. Why every time a kid bears an unhealthy blood relation just for the sake of it. We are born alone and will die alone; we should be allowed to proceed ethical considerations apart from blood connections.

We formed the society ; we need to recognize these falsehoods. Suspend practicing religion for your individual advantages. If you can’t feed your kids stop shouting yourself as a FATHER. Stop condemning the courageous kids for managing their lives on their rules. Keep it modest if you can't accomplish your duties, you are not passed for father terminology. Respect should be earned through difficulties, trials and your attainments. We need to regard those misfortune souls who are breathing with worthless fathers.

A couple of months back, while coming back from Jail (I mean office). Around 2:30 am, I met peculiar powerful rickshaywala. I was mentally drained and outraged about my circumstances. In throaty tone, I told him 'bhai pan ki dukan pe rokna'. I purchased fags, I start smoking one after one I smoked almost 5-6 fags.

Suddenly he questioned, What is wrong with you? Don't you love yourself or family? I responded in outspoken words, 'Uncle apko peni hai toh manglo'. While in this heated argument, we start chatting and I urged like an extremely psycho freak. At that time, I thought he is my best friend and we are having a normal chat about my personal space. I commence talking like a typical bechara in this whole globe. I do retrieve that I described him its surprisingly hard these days to shop. Why I'm so broke? Why I can't purchase Pajero? or why I'm not roommates with Tata or Ambanis ? I laughed, shouted and snapped back, oh my bad you are a rickshaywala (not in a hurtful manner). Why I'm discussing this shit with you.

The whole point of sketching this scenario is to unfold the precious milliseconds. Sometimes you never know who, when and where will acknowledge your undiscovered puzzles. He replied in regional language, 'Beta abhe chotay ho jitna hai utna mein khush hona seekho'. In other words, he explained rare sounds. We all are different; we should not compare our life with others. As we all are breathing for a goal. We will identify our hidden objects later on till then patience is the only cure.

Snapchat is a Smartphone app which is hugely popular worldwide, the fun time app with energy of illustrating the multiple foreign cities, defines the lighter colorful side, which gives a lot more knowledge about the culture of the particularized place.

Karachi is one of the most crowded city, globally. The city has each and everything from novelty to the inherited culture, from elite upper-class buildings to slums. Most especially Karachi has Karachiites, which you can't resist.For snapchat user’s, channel of Karachi went Live today.This highlight by Snapchat is highly honored by the Karchiites and people around the world.

What is Karachi? Let me clarify ‘The city of Lights’. We are famous for our hospitality and inherited culture. Our popular seaview, late night sitting, our street food, our local transport, cricket matches and the people from diverse backgrounds.

This modernism Karachi took place in recent years. The famous malls, International Food chains, recently opened cinema houses or so called famous sports activities. Karachiites understand the real essence of Karachi.

I'm really thankful for such an awesome participation to get people know each other from various countries. The trend ‘Karachi Live’ is currently the uppermost trend of Pakistan on Twitter.

Karachiites promote the real Karachi from our leading chai, pathan ka paratha, Quaid ka mazar, bahadurabd ki chowrangi, gola ganda, bbq,qinchi and every real core element of Karachi. Indeed proud moment for us.

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