What Is A Father?
Fathers eternally titled as one man army. He is the one who
raised his kids. He is a true strength behind great upbringing. It's truly obvious
for fathers it’s very arduous to live up to the anticipations and full fill the
obligations. Father is the one personality who is accountable for his toddler
eternity. Either he can make it or ruin it by his reckless approach. In our
religion, we can observe the visible power of fathers in our lives.Ali ibn
al-Husain (r) is reported to have said,
“The right
of your father on you is that you should know that it is he who brought you
into existence, and you are a branch of the tree of his life.”
Our society and religion somehow are very biased towards the
father. The question occurs what makes a genuine father? What does a good
father act? A father is someone who understands that by granting his sperm for
your origin, he has accomplished his ultimate commitment in life. A dad is
somebody who gets up every day and performs whatever he can to put a shelter
over your head, clothes on your body and meal on your board. Possibly he might
have to dig real hard for bread and butter. He performed various jobs such as
selling burgers, food delivery or a job in a warehouse. He may be not own fancy
clothes, suits, and shoes. He illustrates the importance of hard work not as
he’s expecting for relief but because he grasps unemployment commences to
dispute. He recognizes his responsibility is to secure his kids and render
productive lives. As he can’t always be with them.
Those who do not accomplish their commitments should not be
cited as father or dad. Why it's troublesome for them to assume the basic
consequence of their role and trustworthiness. You should be adequate to feed
them with basic constraints, do teach them what is appropriate or evil. There
is a thin line beyond duties, If you are not capable enough, why are you
demanding all the warmth and admiration from your kid. Why are we confined by
society rules and religion penalties? It is very comfortable to state patience
is a virtue, belief in karma and tawakkul in ALLAH. Why every time a kid bears
an unhealthy blood relation just for the sake of it. We are born alone and will
die alone; we should be allowed to proceed ethical considerations apart from
blood connections.
We formed the society ; we need to recognize these falsehoods.
Suspend practicing religion for your individual advantages. If you can’t feed
your kids stop shouting yourself as a FATHER. Stop condemning the courageous
kids for managing their lives on their rules. Keep it modest if you can't
accomplish your duties, you are not passed for father terminology. Respect
should be earned through difficulties, trials and your attainments. We need to
regard those misfortune souls who are breathing with worthless fathers.
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